Our youngest daughter celebrated her 6th birthday this past weekend... she's growing up so fast! It's exciting to see her personality develop and watch her discover her passions and talents. She loves to color, sing and dance. I love sitting with her and look into her BIG brown eyes! Her laugh is contagious and has a wonderful personality. She's so determined and strong-willed that it drives me nuts... (that's probably because she's a lot like me).
Sunday, December 13, 2009
Wednesday, December 9, 2009
Christmas... this is how
It's no secret that I am not a handy-man. The only tools I own are: a drill gun, screw drivers, hammer, measuring tape, hanging wire and painting stuff. So what do I do with these? I paint, hang pictures and intall blinds.
So whenever I have something that needs to be done around the house, I call up one of my friends who has the know how and the tools to do it. I've learned how to do a lot of things by working by their side as they walk me through the steps. I've replaced garbage disposals, taken up flooring, laid down vinyl floors, installed tile, replaced toilets and even done some electrical work. All because they taught me by saying "This is how..."
So whenever I have something that needs to be done around the house, I call up one of my friends who has the know how and the tools to do it. I've learned how to do a lot of things by working by their side as they walk me through the steps. I've replaced garbage disposals, taken up flooring, laid down vinyl floors, installed tile, replaced toilets and even done some electrical work. All because they taught me by saying "This is how..."
Thursday, December 3, 2009
The Spirit of Christmas
Each night as I make my way back home, I see more homes getting into the Christmas Spirit; lights on the house and out in the yard, wreaths on doors and decorated trees in the window. Then I get to my house... nothing. No lights mounted yet, no tree inside. It doesn't look like there's any Christmas Spirit in our house.
What is the Spirit of Christmas? Is it the lights, decorations, egg nog and the shopping frenzie? Obviously not... but what is it?
What is the Spirit of Christmas? Is it the lights, decorations, egg nog and the shopping frenzie? Obviously not... but what is it?
Tuesday, December 1, 2009
Ruined for Anything Else
Matthew 1:23 "She will give birth to a son, and you are to give Him the name Jesus [the Lord saves], because He will save His people from their sins."
Deep inside the heart of every person is the desire to be apart of greatness. So here's a question... what if you could? What if the opportunity came to you to be apart of something bigger than you; beyond what you felt comfortable with? Would you embrace it... all of it?
Deep inside the heart of every person is the desire to be apart of greatness. So here's a question... what if you could? What if the opportunity came to you to be apart of something bigger than you; beyond what you felt comfortable with? Would you embrace it... all of it?
Sunday, November 29, 2009
Christmas
What an exciting day we had today at church! We started a new series entitled Christmas, and looked at Matthew 2:2 "Where is the One who has been born king of the Jews? We saw His star in the east and have come to worship Him." You can listen online by going to http://www.ffconthehill.com/ and click listen to sermons or check it out on iTunes under Faith Family Church. Here's some highlights...
Thursday, November 26, 2009
Show It!
Thank God! Call out His Name! Tell the whole world who He is and what He's done! Sing to Him! Play songs for Him! - 1 Chronicles 16:8 The Message
The first thing that David did was identify who/what to be thankful for. David the Psalmist mentions no one specific, but God alone. There's none more deserving of our praise and gratitude! Thank God for His grace, mercy, faithfulness, care and provision that He continues to bless us with.
The first thing that David did was identify who/what to be thankful for. David the Psalmist mentions no one specific, but God alone. There's none more deserving of our praise and gratitude! Thank God for His grace, mercy, faithfulness, care and provision that He continues to bless us with.
Monday, November 23, 2009
Your Gift Will Take You Places
Proverbs 18:16 NKJ "A man's gift makes room for him, and brings him before great men."
Thanksgiving is just a few day away, and 'Black Friday' advertisements are starting to increase. I actually enjoy getting out to the stores the day after Thanksgiving... shopping for the right gift and getting a great deal. This proverb isn't about 'how to brib your way to the top', or how to kiss someone's butt to make a good impression; it's talking about knowing your potential and living up to it.
Thanksgiving is just a few day away, and 'Black Friday' advertisements are starting to increase. I actually enjoy getting out to the stores the day after Thanksgiving... shopping for the right gift and getting a great deal. This proverb isn't about 'how to brib your way to the top', or how to kiss someone's butt to make a good impression; it's talking about knowing your potential and living up to it.
Thursday, November 19, 2009
Don't Make It Difficult
I'm one who is drawn towards challenges, but I don't like to deal with things that are difficult. I love the challenge of marriage, but I don't what a difficult marriage. Parenting is challenging, but it doesn't need to be difficult and complex. Pastoring is a challenge, people are challenging, but they don't have to be complicated and difficult.
We can make simple things difficult or more complexed and entangled than they really need to be. For some people, church can be difficult: they feel they have to be perfect or look a certain way. Often church people, the insiders, make church difficult for those who are non-church goers. Expectations to behave in certain ways, do this but not that, you shouldn't say that but you should say this. The natural gravitational pull for all churches is to taylor the church for church people.
We can make simple things difficult or more complexed and entangled than they really need to be. For some people, church can be difficult: they feel they have to be perfect or look a certain way. Often church people, the insiders, make church difficult for those who are non-church goers. Expectations to behave in certain ways, do this but not that, you shouldn't say that but you should say this. The natural gravitational pull for all churches is to taylor the church for church people.
Saturday, November 14, 2009
Man vs. Wild
You've probably heard or seen the show where a gentlemen documents his survival techniques in remote places of the world. Living off the land and surviving the elements with only a back pack of common belongings. He making his own shelters, eats whatever he can find (snakes, insects, plant-life), conquering anything from rivers to mountain tops and deserts.
If you're like me, you'd say things like: "I would never do that." What we mean is: "IF we were given the choice to do those thing OR stay at home in our warm beds, have a nice home cooked meal with regular food; I would choose to never do that." BUT... if we weren't give the choice and found ourselves as a survivor of a plane that crashed in a romote place and for the sake of living... there's no doubt that we would do whatever we could to make it out!"
If you're like me, you'd say things like: "I would never do that." What we mean is: "IF we were given the choice to do those thing OR stay at home in our warm beds, have a nice home cooked meal with regular food; I would choose to never do that." BUT... if we weren't give the choice and found ourselves as a survivor of a plane that crashed in a romote place and for the sake of living... there's no doubt that we would do whatever we could to make it out!"
Friday, November 13, 2009
DRIVES ME NUTS...
I believe you can tell a lot about someone by the things that they are passionate about. I also believe that you can tell just as much about someone by the things that drive them nuts. Well... what does this tell you about me?
THINGS THAT DRIVE ME NUTS!
THINGS THAT DRIVE ME NUTS!
- it drives me nuts when people 'one up' your story just to have the final word
- it drives me nuts when I don't get everything done that I set out to accomplish in a day at work
- it drives me nuts when people say "I can't" and they haven't really given any effort to try
- it drives me nuts when I allow the opinions of others to second guess what's in my heart
Thursday, November 12, 2009
Christmas Spirit... Spirit in Life
I know that we are still a few weeks out from Thanksgiving, but I can't help it... I LOVE CHRISTMAS! I enjoy all if it: the celebration of the life of Christ, crowds of people, eggnog lates, white lights, decorations, shopping for gifts, music, bundling up for cold weather, snow, time with family and friends, etc.
The way some people view Christmas is the same outlook people have about life!
Monday, November 9, 2009
Happy Birthday
My last Blog had a verse that the Apostle Paul wrote to Timothy about following the pattern he lived as he followed the teaching of Jesus Christ. I can't help but thinking about the influence my mom had in my life. This past August my mom died of a heart-attack... today my mom would have celebrated her 69th birthday.
Wednesday, November 4, 2009
Patterns
1 Timothy 1:13 - What you heard from me, keep as the pattern of sound teaching, with faith and love in Christ Jesus.
The Apostle Paul was a mentor to Timothy, and gave a bold statement; pattern your life after mine. This may sound arrogant, proud or presumptuous, however Paul recognizes that patterns are important to life. I have some questions and thoughts stirring from this verse.
The Apostle Paul was a mentor to Timothy, and gave a bold statement; pattern your life after mine. This may sound arrogant, proud or presumptuous, however Paul recognizes that patterns are important to life. I have some questions and thoughts stirring from this verse.
Thursday, October 29, 2009
Does it Matter?
Sometimes things that don't really matter, matter too much. And there's things that really matter that don't matter to us.
So you're on your way with a friend or spouse to dinner, and the question comes up: "What do you want for dinner?" The typical answer is... "I don't know, it doesn't matter to me."
So you're on your way with a friend or spouse to dinner, and the question comes up: "What do you want for dinner?" The typical answer is... "I don't know, it doesn't matter to me."
Wednesday, October 28, 2009
Sunday, October 25, 2009
Vision - Get Up and Go!
Sundays have been amazing! Our message series of GET UP has been one of my favorites of 2009. We've been looking at Saul (the apostle Paul) and the influences that changed in his life. Saul was once zealous to kill those of 'the Way' of Jesus Christ (Acts 1:2), but was enlighted by the truth of God's love and went from a "no way" to a champion of "the Way".
Thursday, October 22, 2009
Vision continued... Everything
John 4:38 NIV "I sent you to reap what you have not worked for. Others have done the hard work, and you have reaped the benefits of their labor."
Jesus was speaking to His disciples and told them to look to the fields and see that they were white, ready for harvest. The essence of vision is to hope, believe, or have faith for something. We cherish the opportunity to reap a harvest, the rewards in life. We understand that desired results don't happen over-night, and that work is required; but are we willing to give it everything that we've got... EVERYTHING?
Jesus was speaking to His disciples and told them to look to the fields and see that they were white, ready for harvest. The essence of vision is to hope, believe, or have faith for something. We cherish the opportunity to reap a harvest, the rewards in life. We understand that desired results don't happen over-night, and that work is required; but are we willing to give it everything that we've got... EVERYTHING?
Wednesday, October 21, 2009
Beyond Sight... Vision
Helen Keller was once asked; "What's worse than being blind?" Her response was; "Having sight but not having vision."
I don't know if I would call myself a "visionary", but I certainly do have floods of ideas, dreams and aspirations. At times it's really difficult to know what to do, when to do them and how to go about doing these things. Many of the thoughts that consume my heart come as I observe things around me; some inspire me, others dissastisfy me because I can see them as being so much more than what they currently are.
I don't know if I would call myself a "visionary", but I certainly do have floods of ideas, dreams and aspirations. At times it's really difficult to know what to do, when to do them and how to go about doing these things. Many of the thoughts that consume my heart come as I observe things around me; some inspire me, others dissastisfy me because I can see them as being so much more than what they currently are.
Tuesday, October 20, 2009
Why... not...How
This one word question is a powerful and important to discover the deeper meaning to situation or a circumstance. It it establishes reason, purpose and mission. As a kid, I wanted to know why I couldn't go outside, or have that piece of candy or have a friend come over. I also asked WHY I had to be the one to take out the trash, do my homework, brush my teeth, etc.
Saturday, October 17, 2009
TGIS - Thank God It's Sunday!
Sunday is my favorite day of the week... and it's not because of football!
I'm anxious to get back to Acts 9 and look at our GET UP series. Last week we looked at how the early church had a difficult time embracing the fact that Saul the 'slaughterer' (he got this name for killing so many Christians), could ever become a fully devoted, TRUE follower of Christ. In essence, they said... "Saul, NO WAY!"
I'm anxious to get back to Acts 9 and look at our GET UP series. Last week we looked at how the early church had a difficult time embracing the fact that Saul the 'slaughterer' (he got this name for killing so many Christians), could ever become a fully devoted, TRUE follower of Christ. In essence, they said... "Saul, NO WAY!"
The Greatest Thing!
What would it be like to be one of the greatest? Being a great fan of sports, athletes today are compared to "the greatest of all times": Muhamud Ali and boxing, Michael Jordan with basketball, Brett Farve in football, Tiger Woods and golf, Billy Graham and world evangelism...
The apostle Paul in 1 Corinthians give us another measure of greatness, one that we all can, or should, strive for in life. He starts it off by saying: "And now I will show you the most excellent way." (1 Cor. 12:31), and ends it all by saying: "And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love." (1 Cor. 13:13)
The apostle Paul in 1 Corinthians give us another measure of greatness, one that we all can, or should, strive for in life. He starts it off by saying: "And now I will show you the most excellent way." (1 Cor. 12:31), and ends it all by saying: "And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love." (1 Cor. 13:13)
Monday, October 12, 2009
The Spirit Behind Our Words
Ephesians 4:26, 27 NIV "In your anger do not sin". Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold.
Each Sunday my wife and I gather with other couples with the purpose of strengthening our marriage and building relationships with others (we call it our community). This portion of scripture sparked some great discussion related to how we honor our spouse, and for me, it really got me thinking about why is it so important to not just guard our words, but the spirit from which our words are spoken.
I remember growing up having my parents having some pretty good "fights", not physical by any means, but verbal. As a child it impacted me, feeling like things weren't stable in the home, afraid and uncertain. I really don't recall what words were spoken, but distinctly remember how the impression it left on me... it left me with a spirit of fear, lacking peace. Even when the yelling was over, the silence continued to scream out for days and even weeks.
Our words are a powerful force. They create or manifest something that I didn't realize till now, a certain spirit that affects the atmosphere, and ulitmately in the lives of those who hear it. It's one things to speak when your angry (which doesn't mean you have to yell), and it's another to speak with a spirit of anger, which typically wants to wound and rather than lead to healing.
I'm BIG on communication. Every week I speak to hundreds of people and try to communicate the turths of scripture in a simple and applicable way that allows people experience the power of God's Word in their life. My wife and I constantly work on our communication in our home, and try to communicate to/with our kids to bring training. What I really discovered tonight goes beyond what words we say to bring understanding, but the spirit with which my words are spoken with.
The words we use to speak are received by others in accordance to the spirit that's behind it. If my spirit is angry, or speak from a wounded spirit, my words are laced with that spirit and imparts the seeds of that spirit, stirring anger or wounding the other. Likewise, if my spirit is compassionate or desires to obtain a spirit of peace, even words of correction will produce compassion and peace.
If you read further in Ephesians it says: Do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, with whom you were sealed for the day of redemption (4:30). The Holy Spirit longs to edify and build up, that's the nature of the Holy Spirit. If I allow the my spirit to come in alignment with the Holy Spirit, my words (regardless of how difficult the converstation my be) will bring about desire of the Holy Spirit. I will eitehr give the Holy Spirit (and His fruit) a foothold or the devil (and his fruit)!
So whats the characteristics or fruit of the Spirit?
Ephesians 5:9 for the fruit of the Spirit is in all goodness, righteousness and truth.
Galatians 5:22, 23 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfullness, gentleness and self-control.
I Can't just choose my words carefully... I must carefully choose the spirit in which I speak my words! Is my spirit truthfull, desiring goodness, is it loving, am I patient, being kind and gentle, faith-filled and self-controlled?
Each Sunday my wife and I gather with other couples with the purpose of strengthening our marriage and building relationships with others (we call it our community). This portion of scripture sparked some great discussion related to how we honor our spouse, and for me, it really got me thinking about why is it so important to not just guard our words, but the spirit from which our words are spoken.
I remember growing up having my parents having some pretty good "fights", not physical by any means, but verbal. As a child it impacted me, feeling like things weren't stable in the home, afraid and uncertain. I really don't recall what words were spoken, but distinctly remember how the impression it left on me... it left me with a spirit of fear, lacking peace. Even when the yelling was over, the silence continued to scream out for days and even weeks.
Our words are a powerful force. They create or manifest something that I didn't realize till now, a certain spirit that affects the atmosphere, and ulitmately in the lives of those who hear it. It's one things to speak when your angry (which doesn't mean you have to yell), and it's another to speak with a spirit of anger, which typically wants to wound and rather than lead to healing.
I'm BIG on communication. Every week I speak to hundreds of people and try to communicate the turths of scripture in a simple and applicable way that allows people experience the power of God's Word in their life. My wife and I constantly work on our communication in our home, and try to communicate to/with our kids to bring training. What I really discovered tonight goes beyond what words we say to bring understanding, but the spirit with which my words are spoken with.
The words we use to speak are received by others in accordance to the spirit that's behind it. If my spirit is angry, or speak from a wounded spirit, my words are laced with that spirit and imparts the seeds of that spirit, stirring anger or wounding the other. Likewise, if my spirit is compassionate or desires to obtain a spirit of peace, even words of correction will produce compassion and peace.
If you read further in Ephesians it says: Do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, with whom you were sealed for the day of redemption (4:30). The Holy Spirit longs to edify and build up, that's the nature of the Holy Spirit. If I allow the my spirit to come in alignment with the Holy Spirit, my words (regardless of how difficult the converstation my be) will bring about desire of the Holy Spirit. I will eitehr give the Holy Spirit (and His fruit) a foothold or the devil (and his fruit)!
So whats the characteristics or fruit of the Spirit?
Ephesians 5:9 for the fruit of the Spirit is in all goodness, righteousness and truth.
Galatians 5:22, 23 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfullness, gentleness and self-control.
I Can't just choose my words carefully... I must carefully choose the spirit in which I speak my words! Is my spirit truthfull, desiring goodness, is it loving, am I patient, being kind and gentle, faith-filled and self-controlled?
Saturday, October 10, 2009
Selah - stop and ponder
I was reading Psalm 67, a short passage of scripture containing only 7 verses. Through out the Psalm you will find the word Selah at the end of certain passages. It's a word that gives instruction to 'stop and ponder' or meditate on. Twice in this short passage Selah appears:
vs 1 - May God be gracious to us and bless us and make his face shine upon us, Selah
vs 4 - May the nations be glad and sing for joy, for You rule the peoples justly and guide the nations of the earth. Selah
These verses seem simple enough that to stop and meditate could seem to over complicate it. I believe that by taking the time to meditate on them, it actually makes it more overwhelming and huge. Here's some of my thoughts...
* God is God, and He doesn't have to bless us. It's not like we deserve it. He has already been gracious to me, and I don't really have too much to complain about. If I never recieved another 'blessing' from God, I wouldn't have any room to complain.
* I'm not entitled to God's blessing, so demanding Him to bless me would be arrogant and a slap to His face.
* Humility and gratitude is the attitude of heart that makes me want to bless my own kids. Am I humble and grateful?
* When was the last time I did truly ask God to bless me? I understand He has already done so much... is that wrong?
* God demonstrates over and over that He desires to bless me. Not because I deserve it, maybe because He simple wants to. My face shines because of HIm.
* Why does God bless me? Because I then can be a blessing to others. My face will then reflect His face, like the moon shines because of the reflection of the sun.
* Who benefits from God blessing me? Everyone... I am instantly. Others are eventually blessed through me, and ultimately God is blessed because it reflect and enhances who He is!
* Am I hindering, blocking or limiting the blessing of God in my life? Am I hindering others from being blessed? Through selfishness, ignorance, disobedience, etc?
* Do I have a desire and the ability to bless something as big as the nations? Is my vision too small?
What do you think... what do you Selah?
vs 1 - May God be gracious to us and bless us and make his face shine upon us, Selah
vs 4 - May the nations be glad and sing for joy, for You rule the peoples justly and guide the nations of the earth. Selah
These verses seem simple enough that to stop and meditate could seem to over complicate it. I believe that by taking the time to meditate on them, it actually makes it more overwhelming and huge. Here's some of my thoughts...
* God is God, and He doesn't have to bless us. It's not like we deserve it. He has already been gracious to me, and I don't really have too much to complain about. If I never recieved another 'blessing' from God, I wouldn't have any room to complain.
* I'm not entitled to God's blessing, so demanding Him to bless me would be arrogant and a slap to His face.
* Humility and gratitude is the attitude of heart that makes me want to bless my own kids. Am I humble and grateful?
* When was the last time I did truly ask God to bless me? I understand He has already done so much... is that wrong?
* God demonstrates over and over that He desires to bless me. Not because I deserve it, maybe because He simple wants to. My face shines because of HIm.
* Why does God bless me? Because I then can be a blessing to others. My face will then reflect His face, like the moon shines because of the reflection of the sun.
* Who benefits from God blessing me? Everyone... I am instantly. Others are eventually blessed through me, and ultimately God is blessed because it reflect and enhances who He is!
* Am I hindering, blocking or limiting the blessing of God in my life? Am I hindering others from being blessed? Through selfishness, ignorance, disobedience, etc?
* Do I have a desire and the ability to bless something as big as the nations? Is my vision too small?
What do you think... what do you Selah?
Wednesday, October 7, 2009
Today...
Today I have a something valuable and powerful... choices. The most powerful choice I have each day will need to be answered over and over again throughout my day. Not because it is never answered, but because it always requires an answer. That choice is my attitude.
Today my most difficult task was, and is, to monitor my attitude. Throughout the day, my attitude is challenged and put to the test. Sometimes I pass, and other times I fail.
I liken this to bull riding (not that I every have). I see the arena of the day that awaits me. I position myself in the gate: praying, thinking positive things, wanting the best, ready to ride the bull. My grip seems tight and secure. I nod my head to affirm that I am ready to swing this gate open and ride the full course of the day with victory in mind. The gate swings open the ride is underway!
Before I know it... the day jumps and shifts and throws me back and forth... I'M HANGING ON TIGHT!
Still more things unfold... the dirt gets in my eyes, my hat flies off and I begin to slip out of position... I'M OFF BALANCE.
I dig my spurs in and the bull response with more intensity, throwing me more violently than before... I CAN'T HOLD ON!
Before I know it I'm tossed to the ground thinking it's over, only to see this raging bull in the air with the horns come straight at me... I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO.
The weight of the bull lands right in my gut, and the pain is overwhelming... I'M IN PAIN!
Although I'm off the bull, it still continues to kick and jump, looking for the clown as the next target.
The bull is gathered back behind the gate, and I go to my resting place to recover.
I reflect on the ride and think of all those things I could of, should of done, to stay on top of the bull. I attempt to mend my body that has been beat up and still feels every injury that came from the ride... it's been a long day!
And as I go to sleep I say a prayer...
God, I fell off the bull today. My body aches and I'm not sure if I'm going to get over this one. I need your strength and healing tonight because tomorrow I want to ride that bull again. I don't know how long it's going to take before I break this bull... but I'M NOT GOING TO QUIT! Amen...
Today my most difficult task was, and is, to monitor my attitude. Throughout the day, my attitude is challenged and put to the test. Sometimes I pass, and other times I fail.
I liken this to bull riding (not that I every have). I see the arena of the day that awaits me. I position myself in the gate: praying, thinking positive things, wanting the best, ready to ride the bull. My grip seems tight and secure. I nod my head to affirm that I am ready to swing this gate open and ride the full course of the day with victory in mind. The gate swings open the ride is underway!
Before I know it... the day jumps and shifts and throws me back and forth... I'M HANGING ON TIGHT!
Still more things unfold... the dirt gets in my eyes, my hat flies off and I begin to slip out of position... I'M OFF BALANCE.
I dig my spurs in and the bull response with more intensity, throwing me more violently than before... I CAN'T HOLD ON!
Before I know it I'm tossed to the ground thinking it's over, only to see this raging bull in the air with the horns come straight at me... I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO.
The weight of the bull lands right in my gut, and the pain is overwhelming... I'M IN PAIN!
Although I'm off the bull, it still continues to kick and jump, looking for the clown as the next target.
The bull is gathered back behind the gate, and I go to my resting place to recover.
I reflect on the ride and think of all those things I could of, should of done, to stay on top of the bull. I attempt to mend my body that has been beat up and still feels every injury that came from the ride... it's been a long day!
And as I go to sleep I say a prayer...
God, I fell off the bull today. My body aches and I'm not sure if I'm going to get over this one. I need your strength and healing tonight because tomorrow I want to ride that bull again. I don't know how long it's going to take before I break this bull... but I'M NOT GOING TO QUIT! Amen...
Meant to Live
People wonder what HISTORY MAKER is all about, so let me give some clarity. HISTORY MAKER is all about living to my potential and fulfill my God given destiny... to allow HIS-story to be lived out in every facet of my life. It is my desire:
There's no way I can live up to such a high standard in myself. It would be absolutely arrogant and impossible to even think I can do this on my own. I've already messed up and failed in every aspect of my life. So how can this even be possible? Why would I aim for such a lofty task?
I believe that life is a gift... not something I'm entitled too. Think about a watch. It didn't just come to exist on its own. Someone had envisioned this watch, and created it to fulfill a specific purpose. A watch-maker believed that this invention would revolutionize the way that ever person would live life. I could be used as a paper weight, but it wouldn't be fulfilling the purpose or the potential in which it was designed for. If I were a watch-maker, I would feel greatly disappointed because that's not why I created the watch.
This is no different with our life. Embedded deep within me are dreams and aspirations. I'm drawn to things, consumed with thoughts of what could be. I have talents and abilities that can be used to add value and meaning to life... mine and others. There's no one else like me on this earth. I'm different, unique, and incapable of living to my potential if left to my own. So, I go to the 'MAKER' of this watch, and rely on Him to help me understand how all these gears work together to display the purpose and plan for my life. To tell time... to tell HIS-story about life.
Can you hear the ticking inside you? Do feel like you're merely existing as a paper weigth in life, or will you pursue to know the purpose of what stirs your heart, the passions and dreams that can't be reasoned? There's a story that your heart was intended to tell and live out. It's HIS-story!
For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother's womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.
My frame was not hidden from you when I was made in the secret place. When I was woven together in the depths of the earth, your eyes saw my unformed body.
All the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them cam to be.
Psalms 139:13-16
- to declare the reality of God, and
- to inspire others to love life and life it to the fullest.
There's no way I can live up to such a high standard in myself. It would be absolutely arrogant and impossible to even think I can do this on my own. I've already messed up and failed in every aspect of my life. So how can this even be possible? Why would I aim for such a lofty task?
I believe that life is a gift... not something I'm entitled too. Think about a watch. It didn't just come to exist on its own. Someone had envisioned this watch, and created it to fulfill a specific purpose. A watch-maker believed that this invention would revolutionize the way that ever person would live life. I could be used as a paper weight, but it wouldn't be fulfilling the purpose or the potential in which it was designed for. If I were a watch-maker, I would feel greatly disappointed because that's not why I created the watch.
This is no different with our life. Embedded deep within me are dreams and aspirations. I'm drawn to things, consumed with thoughts of what could be. I have talents and abilities that can be used to add value and meaning to life... mine and others. There's no one else like me on this earth. I'm different, unique, and incapable of living to my potential if left to my own. So, I go to the 'MAKER' of this watch, and rely on Him to help me understand how all these gears work together to display the purpose and plan for my life. To tell time... to tell HIS-story about life.
Can you hear the ticking inside you? Do feel like you're merely existing as a paper weigth in life, or will you pursue to know the purpose of what stirs your heart, the passions and dreams that can't be reasoned? There's a story that your heart was intended to tell and live out. It's HIS-story!
For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother's womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.
My frame was not hidden from you when I was made in the secret place. When I was woven together in the depths of the earth, your eyes saw my unformed body.
All the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them cam to be.
Psalms 139:13-16
Friday, October 2, 2009
One Thought on Marriage
This weekend will by my last wedding ceremony for 2009. It's been a busy spring and summer for weddings, 8 total. I meet with each couple anywhere from 4 - 8 times leading up to the day of the wedding. It's a lot of work, but it's worth it and I enjoy each opportunity.
Angie and I have been married for 14 years. I can honestly say that I love her more now than ever before, and absolutely enjoy sharing my life with her. We compliment each other, laugh a lot, still date regularly, and bring out the best in each other. We work hard at our marrige... learning, growing and investing regularly into our marriage. God has been faithful in our marriage... mainly by working in our hearts as individuals to be the person we need to be... THEN we can be the spouse we desire to be for each other. We are looking forward to the many more years!
Here's one thought for anyone planning a wedding, thinking about marriage, or wonder if marriage is really worth it. DON'T GET MARRIED! Let me explain... If you're not fully committed to WORK every single day... don't get married. What does this work look like?
Angie and I have been married for 14 years. I can honestly say that I love her more now than ever before, and absolutely enjoy sharing my life with her. We compliment each other, laugh a lot, still date regularly, and bring out the best in each other. We work hard at our marrige... learning, growing and investing regularly into our marriage. God has been faithful in our marriage... mainly by working in our hearts as individuals to be the person we need to be... THEN we can be the spouse we desire to be for each other. We are looking forward to the many more years!
Here's one thought for anyone planning a wedding, thinking about marriage, or wonder if marriage is really worth it. DON'T GET MARRIED! Let me explain... If you're not fully committed to WORK every single day... don't get married. What does this work look like?
- sacrifice - placing more value on the other person than yourself
- forgive - if you have expectaitons, you'll be disappointed, if you have feelings; warm fuzzies go away and hurts will happen. Don't get married if you're not willing to forgive over and over again.
- no ideal conditions - if you're waiting for Mr/Mrs. perfect, you'll never get married, because you're not perfect. If you want financial stability, there's no such thing.
- no vacations - you can't call in sick, there's no time outs, and even when you're apart or by yourself, your actions will always have an impact on your spouse.
- long meetings - this is about communication. If you're more concerned about being right or proving your postion, don't get married. If you aren't willing to share your thoughts and feelings and work through the differences... don't get married. If you want to talk more than listen... don't get married. If you make excuses and don't take responsibility... D.G.M.!
Wednesday, September 30, 2009
Joy and Pain
Hebrews 12:2 "look unto Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith, who for the joy that was set before Him endured the cross..."
When we think about life and what we want to accomplish, we think of great things. Every couple walks down the isle thinking of the "happily ever after" type of marriage. People going into business for themselves think of all the money their going to make. Athletes dream of making the winning shot, or run for the TD when the seconds are ticking. Christians who think that everyday is going to be sunny and full blessings.
I don't think that there's anything wrong with these dreams and desires, but we must realize that a healthy and lasting marriage, success in business or athletics, or even a genuine walk of victorious faith comes with a great price. Even as a Pastors, my wife and I desire our ministry and the church to be effective and influential. But no matter what arena of life, success starts when we "look unto Jesus". Why? Because He's the one who is the author (giver) and finisher of our hopes and dreams, not ourselves. He is the one who has gifted us, positions us and gives purpose in life. It not only brings us fulfillment and joy, but it brings joy to Jesus as well.
BUT... before there is joy, there is always the cross, and we must endure it. What's the cross? The cross is sacrifice, it's struggle, work, painful learning through experiences, fighting discouragement, working through fears, overcoming lack and conditions that aren't favorable. When we're not directly under the weight of the cross, we tell ourselves: "I understand that... no pain, no gain". However, when we actually undergo the pain of the cross, we forget "the joy set before us".
What's going to allow us to endure the cross? Joy... the same joy and dreams that launched us on the journey in the first place. When my wife and I have a conflict, I know that if we work through it, we will be another step closer to a healthier marriage. Keeping our joy before us is a God given way for us to endure the weight of the cross. Jesus kept the joy of restoring us before Him. His love compelled Him to finish the mission He was sent to do.
Regardless if the pain and struggle you're in, look to Jesus. Remember: He places that gift and dream in your heart. He's preparing you for what's ahead. Everyone will face the cross... but keep you're eyes on Jesus, and keep reminding yourself of the joy that waits on the other side.
When we think about life and what we want to accomplish, we think of great things. Every couple walks down the isle thinking of the "happily ever after" type of marriage. People going into business for themselves think of all the money their going to make. Athletes dream of making the winning shot, or run for the TD when the seconds are ticking. Christians who think that everyday is going to be sunny and full blessings.
I don't think that there's anything wrong with these dreams and desires, but we must realize that a healthy and lasting marriage, success in business or athletics, or even a genuine walk of victorious faith comes with a great price. Even as a Pastors, my wife and I desire our ministry and the church to be effective and influential. But no matter what arena of life, success starts when we "look unto Jesus". Why? Because He's the one who is the author (giver) and finisher of our hopes and dreams, not ourselves. He is the one who has gifted us, positions us and gives purpose in life. It not only brings us fulfillment and joy, but it brings joy to Jesus as well.
BUT... before there is joy, there is always the cross, and we must endure it. What's the cross? The cross is sacrifice, it's struggle, work, painful learning through experiences, fighting discouragement, working through fears, overcoming lack and conditions that aren't favorable. When we're not directly under the weight of the cross, we tell ourselves: "I understand that... no pain, no gain". However, when we actually undergo the pain of the cross, we forget "the joy set before us".
What's going to allow us to endure the cross? Joy... the same joy and dreams that launched us on the journey in the first place. When my wife and I have a conflict, I know that if we work through it, we will be another step closer to a healthier marriage. Keeping our joy before us is a God given way for us to endure the weight of the cross. Jesus kept the joy of restoring us before Him. His love compelled Him to finish the mission He was sent to do.
Regardless if the pain and struggle you're in, look to Jesus. Remember: He places that gift and dream in your heart. He's preparing you for what's ahead. Everyone will face the cross... but keep you're eyes on Jesus, and keep reminding yourself of the joy that waits on the other side.
Wednesday, September 23, 2009
Don't Be A Typical Christian
John 17:15 - "I'm not asking You [God] to take them out of the world... "
This is just one line out of an entire chapter that records Jesus praying. Just to know that Jesus prayed for us is amazing; you should read it some time... Anyhow, the part that stood out to me was this statement: "I'm not asking you to take them out of the world..."
It's really funny to think about how Christians live their lives. I can remember that when I decided to be a follower of Christ, the church I attended taught: "Now that you're a Christian, you need to stop hanging out with your non-christian friends, stop listening to non-christian music, don't participate in non-christian activities like school dances." My parents wouldn't even let me go to the movie theaters to watch any movies because they were non-christian.
In the 80's (their back by the way), Christian schools, christian music, christian clothing, christian TV and christian bumper stickers became big. Now, I'm only guessing, but what was the motive behind that? Was it because the "world" was enemy? Was it such a dark and evil place, that we had to remove ourselves from these influences?
Sad to say, many of the christian who grew up with such teaching find themselves today not having any relationships or connections with anyone who isn't a christian. So the thought of bringing your non-christian friends to church is difficult for them because they don't know any. Statistically, less than 3% of American churches are growing. Some say it's because the preacher isn't charismatic enough, or the music isn't up to date... what about the fact that most christian people have removed themselves from a natural mission field... the world. Our schools, our work place, the neighborhoods, the ball games, the bowling leagues... these are the places that Jesus has called us to be an influence. (BTW - not everyone who goes to christian schools, has a christian bumper sticker on their car, or wears a christian t-shirt is a christian)
Look around you, in all the arenas of your life. There are people, and no matter what they may be involved with, or the lifestyle they live; all of them are loved by God and He desires that they would know the reality of who He is. God isn't sending angels to their door once a week to tell them about Jesus. God has called us to be people of influence in this world. Don't pull out of the world and the circles of people who don't believe like you or talk like you. Be in their world... just a God came to ours through Jesus Christ. You may have to deliberately go and introduce yourself to people you don't know. You see them at the gym, the grocery store, school, at your kids soccer games or favorite resturaunt. Invite new people out for coffee or to the house for a BBQ. Double date for dinner and a movie... don't take yourself out of the world!
This is just one line out of an entire chapter that records Jesus praying. Just to know that Jesus prayed for us is amazing; you should read it some time... Anyhow, the part that stood out to me was this statement: "I'm not asking you to take them out of the world..."
It's really funny to think about how Christians live their lives. I can remember that when I decided to be a follower of Christ, the church I attended taught: "Now that you're a Christian, you need to stop hanging out with your non-christian friends, stop listening to non-christian music, don't participate in non-christian activities like school dances." My parents wouldn't even let me go to the movie theaters to watch any movies because they were non-christian.
In the 80's (their back by the way), Christian schools, christian music, christian clothing, christian TV and christian bumper stickers became big. Now, I'm only guessing, but what was the motive behind that? Was it because the "world" was enemy? Was it such a dark and evil place, that we had to remove ourselves from these influences?
Sad to say, many of the christian who grew up with such teaching find themselves today not having any relationships or connections with anyone who isn't a christian. So the thought of bringing your non-christian friends to church is difficult for them because they don't know any. Statistically, less than 3% of American churches are growing. Some say it's because the preacher isn't charismatic enough, or the music isn't up to date... what about the fact that most christian people have removed themselves from a natural mission field... the world. Our schools, our work place, the neighborhoods, the ball games, the bowling leagues... these are the places that Jesus has called us to be an influence. (BTW - not everyone who goes to christian schools, has a christian bumper sticker on their car, or wears a christian t-shirt is a christian)
Look around you, in all the arenas of your life. There are people, and no matter what they may be involved with, or the lifestyle they live; all of them are loved by God and He desires that they would know the reality of who He is. God isn't sending angels to their door once a week to tell them about Jesus. God has called us to be people of influence in this world. Don't pull out of the world and the circles of people who don't believe like you or talk like you. Be in their world... just a God came to ours through Jesus Christ. You may have to deliberately go and introduce yourself to people you don't know. You see them at the gym, the grocery store, school, at your kids soccer games or favorite resturaunt. Invite new people out for coffee or to the house for a BBQ. Double date for dinner and a movie... don't take yourself out of the world!
A Reconciled Life
2 Corinthians 5:19 "God was reconciling the world to Himself in Christ..."
I don't know if I will ever fully understand the depth of this verse. The simple part of this is that God desired to have restored relationship with us, His most precious of all creation. Think of reconciling in terms of your finances, like our checkbook (for many it's online banking... I'm still old school). The purpose of reconciling your account is to make sure that your records balance with the what the bank has on record. This keeps things in sync and helps avoid being over drawn.
The part that is so overwhelming with this verse is that God took it upon Himself to balance our life... not me balancing it. Before the days of online banking, one would take their bank statement from the mailbox and open their check book and go line by line to make sure that everything was accounted for. Sometimes a check would be forgotten and the two seperate records would not reconcile. You would rack your brain trying to recount where you've been and what you spent your money on. Some people didn't bother keeping track at all, and would open up their bank statement and would find themselves either pleasantly surprised by the amount of money they had or fearful of what they didn't have.
God could have put the weight of responsibility on us (our records) to reconcile with Him, but He reconciled our life with Himself... His records with His records. God understood that we were dead in our sins, and had no idea how "over drawn" we were, and provided a way to make us reconcile with Him; the life of Jesus Christ. As real as this is, some people still try to reconcile their life with God by their own means: acts of kindness, trying to be good people, not get into too much trouble, etc. All these thing aren't sufficent to reconcile us with God. Basically, they reject God's gift and plan of settling accounts by relying on their own records and methods.
I know I'm not God, but if I were... I would be sad, frustrated, angry and frankly insulted at the rejection such an act of kindness that was made available through my Son Jesus Christ. I find myself trying to be self-sufficient at times, paying no attention to what "debts of sin" I have built up. These include words spoken, attitudes, being rude and causing hurt in peole, in my anger reacting wrongly.
Where would I be without God's love for me? I can't even imagine the questions and fears I would have hoping and praying that I've done enough to make things right with God. He removed all doubts by giving His Son Jesus Christ to die for my sins. And to think that all I have to do is acknowledge and repent of my sins and confess Jesus as the Savior of my soul. To devote everyday of my life in humility and faith in Christ Jesus. That's too much for me to comprehend. Thank God for His love for me!
I don't know if I will ever fully understand the depth of this verse. The simple part of this is that God desired to have restored relationship with us, His most precious of all creation. Think of reconciling in terms of your finances, like our checkbook (for many it's online banking... I'm still old school). The purpose of reconciling your account is to make sure that your records balance with the what the bank has on record. This keeps things in sync and helps avoid being over drawn.
The part that is so overwhelming with this verse is that God took it upon Himself to balance our life... not me balancing it. Before the days of online banking, one would take their bank statement from the mailbox and open their check book and go line by line to make sure that everything was accounted for. Sometimes a check would be forgotten and the two seperate records would not reconcile. You would rack your brain trying to recount where you've been and what you spent your money on. Some people didn't bother keeping track at all, and would open up their bank statement and would find themselves either pleasantly surprised by the amount of money they had or fearful of what they didn't have.
God could have put the weight of responsibility on us (our records) to reconcile with Him, but He reconciled our life with Himself... His records with His records. God understood that we were dead in our sins, and had no idea how "over drawn" we were, and provided a way to make us reconcile with Him; the life of Jesus Christ. As real as this is, some people still try to reconcile their life with God by their own means: acts of kindness, trying to be good people, not get into too much trouble, etc. All these thing aren't sufficent to reconcile us with God. Basically, they reject God's gift and plan of settling accounts by relying on their own records and methods.
I know I'm not God, but if I were... I would be sad, frustrated, angry and frankly insulted at the rejection such an act of kindness that was made available through my Son Jesus Christ. I find myself trying to be self-sufficient at times, paying no attention to what "debts of sin" I have built up. These include words spoken, attitudes, being rude and causing hurt in peole, in my anger reacting wrongly.
Where would I be without God's love for me? I can't even imagine the questions and fears I would have hoping and praying that I've done enough to make things right with God. He removed all doubts by giving His Son Jesus Christ to die for my sins. And to think that all I have to do is acknowledge and repent of my sins and confess Jesus as the Savior of my soul. To devote everyday of my life in humility and faith in Christ Jesus. That's too much for me to comprehend. Thank God for His love for me!
Tuesday, September 22, 2009
The View
Romans 12:1-2 "...in view of God's mercy... be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is - His good, pleasing and perfect will."
Being a parent is a challenge. If you're a parent, you understand that. The greatest weight of responsibility I feel I have as a parent is to train my two girls to become all that God has intended them to be. I want the best for them, even when I'm not around. When I look at the day to day activities, I can run myself ragged if all I'm doing is addressing their actions, conversations, attitudes... trying to keep them on the 'right road'.
The reality is that I only have about 8 to 10 years left before I lose my years of influence and training. As they grow up, their seasons of life bring new challenges for me as a parent. I've come to believe that my greatest priority is to shape and influence their mind. Either I'm going to be giving them fish for 18 years, or I'm going to teach them how to fish. Their life is going to go beyond the days they have in our home, but my influence can go with them everyday of their life.
The church really is the sum of God's children, He is our father. To think that God is going to chase us everyday of our lives trying to correct every action, blow the whistle on bad attitudes, and slap our hands when we do the wrong things... even God doesn't have enough time or energy to do that everyday. Many people have this view of God.
As I get older, I realize that my view of what my parents did for me they did with the motive of love. It humbles me and gives me greater appreciation and love for what they did. When was the last time we stepped back and took a different view of what God has done in our life? How long has it been that since we've taken inventory of God's mercy and reminded ourselves that He desires His good, pleasing perfect will for us?
The view I have will determines what I think. If I keep His point of view, I can be transformed in my mind. And if my mind is transformed, I can experience His best in my life!
Lord thank you for your love and mercy. Help correct my vision and mold my heart to be transformed by seeing what you see. Teach me to walk each day of my life with eyes of mercy for those around me. Amen.
Being a parent is a challenge. If you're a parent, you understand that. The greatest weight of responsibility I feel I have as a parent is to train my two girls to become all that God has intended them to be. I want the best for them, even when I'm not around. When I look at the day to day activities, I can run myself ragged if all I'm doing is addressing their actions, conversations, attitudes... trying to keep them on the 'right road'.
The reality is that I only have about 8 to 10 years left before I lose my years of influence and training. As they grow up, their seasons of life bring new challenges for me as a parent. I've come to believe that my greatest priority is to shape and influence their mind. Either I'm going to be giving them fish for 18 years, or I'm going to teach them how to fish. Their life is going to go beyond the days they have in our home, but my influence can go with them everyday of their life.
The church really is the sum of God's children, He is our father. To think that God is going to chase us everyday of our lives trying to correct every action, blow the whistle on bad attitudes, and slap our hands when we do the wrong things... even God doesn't have enough time or energy to do that everyday. Many people have this view of God.
As I get older, I realize that my view of what my parents did for me they did with the motive of love. It humbles me and gives me greater appreciation and love for what they did. When was the last time we stepped back and took a different view of what God has done in our life? How long has it been that since we've taken inventory of God's mercy and reminded ourselves that He desires His good, pleasing perfect will for us?
The view I have will determines what I think. If I keep His point of view, I can be transformed in my mind. And if my mind is transformed, I can experience His best in my life!
Lord thank you for your love and mercy. Help correct my vision and mold my heart to be transformed by seeing what you see. Teach me to walk each day of my life with eyes of mercy for those around me. Amen.
Sunday, September 20, 2009
The Beauty of Our Scars
Today was a great day (minus the Seahawk loss to the 49ers)... our services were incredible. Several people made decisions to GET UP from failures; past and present, asking for God's forgiveness and forgiving themselves. I cannot tell you how exciting it is to look into the eyes of people who experience the reality of God. They look alive, as if a weight has been dropped or they just took their first breath.
I also performed a wedding this evening as well. It was one of the most enjoyable times I've had at a wedding. I had a chance to meet a particular gentlemen and we just seemed to click. He played basketball professionally for six years and grew up in New Jersey. Our conversation led to some personal exchanges that allowed me to bring some words of encouragement to this man. He grew up in a home where the family were devoted Catholics. He expressed hurts and rejection that impacted he and his siblings... feelings of rejection and disappointment. This was 25 years ago... and it still hurts.
I met another who once was a youth pastor and music director on staff in a church located not too far from ours a little over 10 years ago. He saw some things that caused him to really question church and was accused of something he did not do. Now he lives in California and has nothing to do with church at all. What got me was that he had journaled his experience (hundres of pages), the things that caused great hurt and pain. As he was sharing he had to stop himself because that hurt was still impacting him today.
Luke 22:32 - But I have prayed for you, Simon, that your faith may not fail. And when you have turned back, strengthenyour brothers.
You never know who God is going to bring into our intersections of life. Today I referenced the apostle Peter and the account of his denying of Jesus. Peter was told that satan was wanting to sift him as wheat and that Jesus was praying for Peter, :that his faith may not fail..." not that he wouldn't follow through with the denials, but that his faith wouldn't fail. Jesus continued to tell him "...when you turn back, strengthen your brothers."
Our scars in life have a story, and our scars connect with others who are experiencing the same things. The beauty of our scars is that people can identify with the pain, and find hope because we were able to get up from those failures. People want to get up from the hurts and failures, but sometimes don't know how to do it. We become of greater value because of our scars. They makes us human and real, and they make God and His love more real to them too.
Many times what we think are set backs in our lives literally become platforms of favor to minister the reality of God to others. You never know who God is bringing your way, nor what God is able to do with our failures... they can even become beautiful!
I also performed a wedding this evening as well. It was one of the most enjoyable times I've had at a wedding. I had a chance to meet a particular gentlemen and we just seemed to click. He played basketball professionally for six years and grew up in New Jersey. Our conversation led to some personal exchanges that allowed me to bring some words of encouragement to this man. He grew up in a home where the family were devoted Catholics. He expressed hurts and rejection that impacted he and his siblings... feelings of rejection and disappointment. This was 25 years ago... and it still hurts.
I met another who once was a youth pastor and music director on staff in a church located not too far from ours a little over 10 years ago. He saw some things that caused him to really question church and was accused of something he did not do. Now he lives in California and has nothing to do with church at all. What got me was that he had journaled his experience (hundres of pages), the things that caused great hurt and pain. As he was sharing he had to stop himself because that hurt was still impacting him today.
Luke 22:32 - But I have prayed for you, Simon, that your faith may not fail. And when you have turned back, strengthenyour brothers.
You never know who God is going to bring into our intersections of life. Today I referenced the apostle Peter and the account of his denying of Jesus. Peter was told that satan was wanting to sift him as wheat and that Jesus was praying for Peter, :that his faith may not fail..." not that he wouldn't follow through with the denials, but that his faith wouldn't fail. Jesus continued to tell him "...when you turn back, strengthen your brothers."
Our scars in life have a story, and our scars connect with others who are experiencing the same things. The beauty of our scars is that people can identify with the pain, and find hope because we were able to get up from those failures. People want to get up from the hurts and failures, but sometimes don't know how to do it. We become of greater value because of our scars. They makes us human and real, and they make God and His love more real to them too.
Many times what we think are set backs in our lives literally become platforms of favor to minister the reality of God to others. You never know who God is bringing your way, nor what God is able to do with our failures... they can even become beautiful!
Saturday, September 19, 2009
TGIS - Thank God It's Sunday
This week has been a blur! So many things happened that seemed so diverse. Our youngest daughter started kindergarten, our oldest turned 9 years old (last year in the single digits), girls sleep over, building project details, a funneral, a wedding, date with my wife, two opportunities of sharing Christ with strangers, a hospital visit, going through my mom's stuff at home, watching the memorial service, wrestling with God in prayer for so many different things...
Instead of looking forward to a scheduled vacation, I truly am looking forward to church tomorrow! Although some may consider it a (or the only) 'work day' for pastors, as a person I still consider it my Sabbath. A day I get to come together with others to worship God, not just do or go to church. I get to find rest and be strengthened in my heart, not just do my Christian duty. I get to be encouraged by the Holy Spirit and the Word of God, not just be told what to do if I want to make God happy. I truly love Sundays and can honestly say it's one of the highlights of my week!
I can't imagine what it would be like to not have a church that I loved to be apart of. Even more so, a church that I just worked at and not find desireable. Each week I feel refreshed by God's Spirit, and inspired as people experience the reality of God in ways that impact their everyday lives. Seeing people connect with other people and forming life-long relationship that want God's best for each other.
Angie and I feel blessed to have a church like this we call home. Even more blessed to pastor such an amazing group of people who are discovering Christ, growing in Him and excited to tell others of all that Jesus has and is doing in their life!
See Sunday...
Instead of looking forward to a scheduled vacation, I truly am looking forward to church tomorrow! Although some may consider it a (or the only) 'work day' for pastors, as a person I still consider it my Sabbath. A day I get to come together with others to worship God, not just do or go to church. I get to find rest and be strengthened in my heart, not just do my Christian duty. I get to be encouraged by the Holy Spirit and the Word of God, not just be told what to do if I want to make God happy. I truly love Sundays and can honestly say it's one of the highlights of my week!
I can't imagine what it would be like to not have a church that I loved to be apart of. Even more so, a church that I just worked at and not find desireable. Each week I feel refreshed by God's Spirit, and inspired as people experience the reality of God in ways that impact their everyday lives. Seeing people connect with other people and forming life-long relationship that want God's best for each other.
Angie and I feel blessed to have a church like this we call home. Even more blessed to pastor such an amazing group of people who are discovering Christ, growing in Him and excited to tell others of all that Jesus has and is doing in their life!
See Sunday...
Thursday, September 17, 2009
Living My Potential
John 10:10 The theif does not come except to steal, and to kill, and to destroy. I have come that they may have life, and that they may have it [life] more abundantly.
One of my greatest desires and prayers is: "God, help me live my life fulfilling my potential, living my destiny." Satan doesn't want me to live my life to the fullest, because if I did; it would give evidence to the fact that there is a God, and that there is a purpose for life bigger than myself. So he (satan), will do anything and everything to keep you from an abundant life.
Let's classify these stumbling blocks as problems; financial difficulties, marriage issues, addictions, stressful situations, opposition to a process, etc. These problems will want to lead us to discouragement, fear, isolation, hopelessness, etc. We can run from these problems or try to navigate our lives down the road of least resistance. It's easier, less complicated and far more comforting to take this position, but our full potential in life is lived out as we face these problems. God is able to take the intended stumbling blocks and use them as stepping stones to grow and enable us to reach our potential.
Consider these thoughts:
1. Problems are everywhere and everybody has some. It's easy to find problems... most people just complain or tolerate them, and few give themselves to try to solve them.
2. Our perspective of the problem, not the problem itself, usually determines our success or failure. There were two men who sold shoes for different companies who were being sent to the same remote island. The first man got off the plane and called his company and said; "there is a problem, nobody here even where shoes, I'm coming home." The second man got off the plane and phoned his company and said; "Triple the order, everybody here needs shoes!"
3. The size of the person is more important than the size of the problem. A person will rise to the challenge or run from it based upon the heart within them. Big people overcome big obstacles.
4. Problems can actually advance us forward. Whether it's a personal problem, a business issue or a challenge that society faces; when we give ourselves to overcome the problems it can add value to us and others.
What problems have caused you to shrink back? What seems to be a problem that limits you can actually be the catalyst that launches you to another level of life!
One of my greatest desires and prayers is: "God, help me live my life fulfilling my potential, living my destiny." Satan doesn't want me to live my life to the fullest, because if I did; it would give evidence to the fact that there is a God, and that there is a purpose for life bigger than myself. So he (satan), will do anything and everything to keep you from an abundant life.
Let's classify these stumbling blocks as problems; financial difficulties, marriage issues, addictions, stressful situations, opposition to a process, etc. These problems will want to lead us to discouragement, fear, isolation, hopelessness, etc. We can run from these problems or try to navigate our lives down the road of least resistance. It's easier, less complicated and far more comforting to take this position, but our full potential in life is lived out as we face these problems. God is able to take the intended stumbling blocks and use them as stepping stones to grow and enable us to reach our potential.
Consider these thoughts:
1. Problems are everywhere and everybody has some. It's easy to find problems... most people just complain or tolerate them, and few give themselves to try to solve them.
2. Our perspective of the problem, not the problem itself, usually determines our success or failure. There were two men who sold shoes for different companies who were being sent to the same remote island. The first man got off the plane and called his company and said; "there is a problem, nobody here even where shoes, I'm coming home." The second man got off the plane and phoned his company and said; "Triple the order, everybody here needs shoes!"
3. The size of the person is more important than the size of the problem. A person will rise to the challenge or run from it based upon the heart within them. Big people overcome big obstacles.
4. Problems can actually advance us forward. Whether it's a personal problem, a business issue or a challenge that society faces; when we give ourselves to overcome the problems it can add value to us and others.
What problems have caused you to shrink back? What seems to be a problem that limits you can actually be the catalyst that launches you to another level of life!
Tuesday, September 15, 2009
What If I Fall?
The life of Peter, one of Jesus' disciples, is a great encouragement to me. He literally became a pioneer to today's church in spite of his enormous flaws and failures. Even when Jesus told Peter that he would deny Him three times by days end, Peter still messed up. He even declared to Jesus that he would go to prison and even die for Jesus instead of denying Him.
This weekend at Faith Family Church we introduced new series entitled GET UP! All of us fail or 'fall short' in life. At times it sounds like a cop-out or a statement that's used as a larger than life eraser... attempting to make excuses for the choices we make.
When I read about the dialogue between Peter and Jesus, I have to ask myself..."How would I handle this?"
How would I handle Jesus telling me that I'm going to fail?
Isn't He suppose to keep me from failing?
How would I react?
Would I discredit His words?
Could I accept it?
What would it say of my faith or commitment to Jesus if I accepted this word and tried not to fail?
Probably the most difficult one...
If I accepted the fact that I'm going to fail in life, why do I try so hard not to fail?
I'm not one who handles failures well. I have expectation of myself, and feel that others are depending on me to not fail. My wife doesn't want to see me fail, neither do my friends, my church, etc... How do I process this? One things stands out to me is amazing truth... Jesus knows that I will fall and He still gives Himself fully to me!
He loves me the same, (others may not)
His plans for my life are still good, (others might)
heaven isn't off limits, (relationship with others may)
He doesn't treat me any differently... (other would)
He doens't change! But I do :)
This weekend at Faith Family Church we introduced new series entitled GET UP! All of us fail or 'fall short' in life. At times it sounds like a cop-out or a statement that's used as a larger than life eraser... attempting to make excuses for the choices we make.
When I read about the dialogue between Peter and Jesus, I have to ask myself..."How would I handle this?"
How would I handle Jesus telling me that I'm going to fail?
Isn't He suppose to keep me from failing?
How would I react?
Would I discredit His words?
Could I accept it?
What would it say of my faith or commitment to Jesus if I accepted this word and tried not to fail?
Probably the most difficult one...
If I accepted the fact that I'm going to fail in life, why do I try so hard not to fail?
I'm not one who handles failures well. I have expectation of myself, and feel that others are depending on me to not fail. My wife doesn't want to see me fail, neither do my friends, my church, etc... How do I process this? One things stands out to me is amazing truth... Jesus knows that I will fall and He still gives Himself fully to me!
He loves me the same, (others may not)
His plans for my life are still good, (others might)
heaven isn't off limits, (relationship with others may)
He doesn't treat me any differently... (other would)
He doens't change! But I do :)
Monday, August 31, 2009
She's My Mom
This picture was taken this June down in Seaside Oregon while we spent one week with my mom on vacation. We were in a hat shop just being silly, and now it's my favorite picture. She passed away unexpectedly on August 20th.I never knew any of my grandparents, so this was my first time experiencing the loss of a someone close. It came as quite a shock to all of us. Since that day we received the news, it's been amazing at how much love has been expressed to us. We are grateful for all the prayers, cards and our church family. 
Our memorial service was perfect; it captured who my mom was and we celebrated her life. One of the things my sister and I were grateful for was our trip to Korea that we took with my mom 2 summers ago. It was my first time going there, and it gave me greater understanding of who my mom was and how her culture really did impact her life; even here in the U.S. Looking back now it means that much more to me.
There are some things about my mom that stick with me or are apart of me: she was stubborn and strong willed... this also allowed her to be a fighter and an over comer. Her main way of expressing her love and affection came in her generous gift giving and being very touchy or physical with people... which is something that comes naturally to me. I'd also say my joy of shopping and fashion savvy came from her too.
The most impacting thing about my mom was her constant prayers. She not only prayed passionately, but she knew the power of prayer. I would not be who I am today if it wasn't for mom praying. Although she mainly prayed in Korean, I always knew when she was praying for me.
My sister came across a note she wrote in 1994, during my first years of ministry experience. It was in the back of an address book and it was something she never showed me. My mom didn't express in words her love much, nor did she give a lot of complements. As I read the note, I could hear my mom telling me how proud she was of me and excited to see what God was doing in my life. It's a treasure that I will forever keep!
My mom wasn't a saint, not perfect and sure was difficult to get along with at times... this describes me too! One of the phrases that I used the most when it came to describe our relationship (especially to others) was... "She's my mom." I'm proud to say that!
Monday, August 17, 2009
I'm Going To Lock-Up
I was recently contacted the Fife/Milton business bureau as a community MOST WANTED, and notified that I will be LOCKED-UP behind bars on August 27th! This partnership is to raise money for the MDA (Muscular Dystrophy Association), to assist kids who suffer from MD.
MD is a genetic disease marked by a progressive weakness and degeneration of the skeletal or voluntary muscles, which control movement. In some cases, this is includes the muscles of the heart and some other involuntary muscles. This makes simple tasks like brushing your teeth, getting dressed, standing or walking very difficult as it progresses.
In order to be released from LOCK-UP, I must raise bail. My goal is to raise $2,000 to impact and improve a child's life. The reality is that one person can't help all those who are affected by MD, but together we can make a difference. Here's what we can do:
$1,600 purchases a wheelchair, leg braces or a communication device
$800 sends a kid to MDA Summer Camp
$100 sponsors a support group
$85 keeps MDA's research going
$30 pays for a flu shot for someone with respiratory disease
If you are interested in making a life changing difference for a child who suffers from MD, please CLICK HERE to make your contribution online. All gifts are tax deductible.
Saturday, August 15, 2009
FriendsSeattle Mariners
Tonight we went with our staff and some friends to watch the Seattle Mariners play against the New York Yankees. Mariners ended up loosing the game in the 9th, but we put on our rally caps (turning you hat inside out) trying to generate some MOJO.
We had a great time just hanging out, having a great time... eating garlic fries! One of the highlights was when a fan was arrested for leaping over the outfield wall and running onto the field.
It was good to just be with great people and enjoying their company. I wasn't a pastor, or a boss... just a person who enjoys baseball, who loved being with other people, building memories.
Friends are vital to enjoying life. Proverbs 18:24 says "A man who has friends must himself be friendly; and there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother." Being friendly isn't something that you do just in the beginning of a friendship. Being friendly is a characteristic that is there throughout the journey, even in tough times. I heard Pastor Joel Osteen once said: a friend walks in when others walk out, and a friend rubs out a hurt when others rub it in. When you stop and think about it, the value of a true friendship is when things are rough and you're not at your best, yet they are there to walk you through it.
Jesus was known as a friend to sinners...WOW! Sin separates us from God, yet His love is so compelling that He cared for the person who was entangled in sin, and God was willing to walk in their life when others were walking out. God rubbed out the hurt by sending His Son Jesus to dying on the cross while we were still in our sin, when others raise their stones to rub it in. He demonstrated His friendship by sticking close and walking this life with us!
Finding friends like this isn't easy. Everyone needs friends like that. I want to be a friend to others like Jesus is to me...
Lord, teach me to be a friend. Allow your love to increase in my life so it enables me walk in people's life when others are walking out. Help me to rub out the hurts that have been inflicted in the hearts of others, just as you have in my life. Give me friends that will be there with me when I'm not my best. Thank you for remaining close to me, being my friend when I've needed it the most... Amen.
Tuesday, August 11, 2009
Entertaining Angels
This past Sunday, my wife and I had one of the most amazing encounters we have ever experienced. It can only be explained as a divine appointment that God had waiting for us when we least expected it, and when we needed it the most!
At this time I don't feel at liberty to share details of what our incredible experience was, but it had such an impact that I know it was a wonderful gift from God. I keep replaying it over and over, and the verse that keeps popping in my head is Hebrews 13:2 "Do not forget to entertain strangers, for by so doing some have unwittingly entertained angels."
Matthew 4:11 and Mark 1:13 tells of when Jesus was in the wilderness, after being tempted, He was ministered to by angels. It doesn't give any specific details other than that statement, but if Jesus needed to be ministered to by angels, then I'm open to the fact that I could use some ministry at times too! Throughout the Bible, angels are referenced 294 times, and one of those is Psalm 91:11 "For He shall give His angels charge over you, to keep you in all your ways."
Why would God use an angel and not a person? (love to hear your thoughts...) Maybe there aren't people who are being sensitive or obedient to respond to a prompting of the Lord to minister to those in need. Or perhaps the fact that one needing ministry isn't able to receive ministry that comes from those around them.
The heart of God and the ministry that comes from Him is always to build up and encourage; "...to keep you in all your ways." This may mean, giving some encouragement to stay on a certain course, or to make a course correction to keep us from heartache. It could be to bring peace of mind and strength when your unable to stir up your faith because the constant battle has made you weary. Regardless of what the situation may be, it's clear that God wants you to know that He is attentive to our needs and is faithful to His children and the journey of destiny that we are pursuing by faith. (what do you think about angels?)
I didn't see any unusual glow of light, the clouds didn't part with singing of an angelic choir, nor answers to all my questions I have prayed about. But I did sense an undeniable presence of peace, and a rest that came upon my mind. I feel a new strength and determination to continue pressing on toward the goal that seems bigger than me. Above all, I'm reminded of the great love God has for me, and the grace that He gives freely for my life.
God, thank you for Your attentiveness towards us, for Your close, personal and active role you take in our lives. Open our eyes to see your face, to sense Your presence in the midst of the struggles we face. Help us be discerning and obedient to respond to Your Holy Spirit as you might have us cross paths with others who need ministering of your love and power. In Jesus name we pray... Amen.
At this time I don't feel at liberty to share details of what our incredible experience was, but it had such an impact that I know it was a wonderful gift from God. I keep replaying it over and over, and the verse that keeps popping in my head is Hebrews 13:2 "Do not forget to entertain strangers, for by so doing some have unwittingly entertained angels."
Matthew 4:11 and Mark 1:13 tells of when Jesus was in the wilderness, after being tempted, He was ministered to by angels. It doesn't give any specific details other than that statement, but if Jesus needed to be ministered to by angels, then I'm open to the fact that I could use some ministry at times too! Throughout the Bible, angels are referenced 294 times, and one of those is Psalm 91:11 "For He shall give His angels charge over you, to keep you in all your ways."
Why would God use an angel and not a person? (love to hear your thoughts...) Maybe there aren't people who are being sensitive or obedient to respond to a prompting of the Lord to minister to those in need. Or perhaps the fact that one needing ministry isn't able to receive ministry that comes from those around them.
The heart of God and the ministry that comes from Him is always to build up and encourage; "...to keep you in all your ways." This may mean, giving some encouragement to stay on a certain course, or to make a course correction to keep us from heartache. It could be to bring peace of mind and strength when your unable to stir up your faith because the constant battle has made you weary. Regardless of what the situation may be, it's clear that God wants you to know that He is attentive to our needs and is faithful to His children and the journey of destiny that we are pursuing by faith. (what do you think about angels?)
I didn't see any unusual glow of light, the clouds didn't part with singing of an angelic choir, nor answers to all my questions I have prayed about. But I did sense an undeniable presence of peace, and a rest that came upon my mind. I feel a new strength and determination to continue pressing on toward the goal that seems bigger than me. Above all, I'm reminded of the great love God has for me, and the grace that He gives freely for my life.
God, thank you for Your attentiveness towards us, for Your close, personal and active role you take in our lives. Open our eyes to see your face, to sense Your presence in the midst of the struggles we face. Help us be discerning and obedient to respond to Your Holy Spirit as you might have us cross paths with others who need ministering of your love and power. In Jesus name we pray... Amen.
Monday, July 20, 2009
Who Told You That?
Genesis 3 gives us the account of what we know as the Fall of Man. This is when Adam and Eve ate of the fruit off the tree that God established as forbidden. Many, including myself, have wondered why God would do such a thing; placing such a "temptation" before them. I still don't have a real solid answer, but I do understand that God did give us a free will, and that love, devotion and commitment can only be visible in a persons freedom of choice through free will. But the amazing part of this is that in spite of our short comings, God still chooses to love me!
I believe that the Fall of Man wasn't when they ate the fruit, that was just the outcome of an earlier fall. The fall entered the mind before their lips touched the fruit of the tree. From the beginning of time Satan has wanted to destroy God's purpose and plan for mankind, and he does it the same way every time... planting the seed of doubt against God's Word. "Did God really say..." Genesis 3:1
This seed of doubt can be very convincing to all of us, especially when our eyes are focused on the circumstances and the facts that seem to be stacked against us. Did God really say that He would supply all our needs? (truth)Then why did I get my layoff notice? Did God really say that by the stripes of Jesus I am healed? (truth) Then why am I still battling this sickness, or dealing with this injury? Did God really say raise up a child in the way he should go and they will not depart? (truth) Then why is my child so distant from God and living a life of hell here on earth? The real life experiences seem so convincing, and the doubt of what God's promises really are seem so distant from becoming a reality. If we allow the seed of doubt to take root in our mind, fear and destruction will be the fruit that we will eat of.
God's answer to Adam and Eve in their situation comes in one of the most powerful questions: "Who told you that...?" Genesis 3:11 Who told you that... you can't rise above the economic tide? Who told you that... your healing isn't real and for you, but for people that are better and more special? Who told you that... your children are too far for God to reach them?
In my life, I can tell you that the temporary circumstances have always fallen short to God's purpose and plan for my life. Coming from a broken home, and an absence of a father didn't keep me from becoming the father that I was destined to be, or a marriage that is still passionate and full of life after 14 amazing years! Although I didn't go to a 4 year bible college, it didn't stop God from opening doors for His call in my life as a youth pastor, associate and now senior pastor! In spite of the economic strain, God has still allowed our church to build what God has destined for our church in our our community. My wife and I have seen God's faithfulness to us financially and has allowed us to give sacrificially over the past 2 years! Who told us we could do all this? Certainly not society, not all our friends, nor all the church going people. Who told me that there is a plan and purpose for my life. Who told me that these plans are for me to prosper, for good and not for evil? (Jeremiah 29:11)
Let's not continue the Fall of Man. Let's be firmly established in God's Word regardless of what the circumstances may seem to be, or what others may say. Let's see the Rise of Man come as we remember what God told Joshua "Be strong and courageous. Do not be terrified; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go." Joshua 1:9
I believe that the Fall of Man wasn't when they ate the fruit, that was just the outcome of an earlier fall. The fall entered the mind before their lips touched the fruit of the tree. From the beginning of time Satan has wanted to destroy God's purpose and plan for mankind, and he does it the same way every time... planting the seed of doubt against God's Word. "Did God really say..." Genesis 3:1
This seed of doubt can be very convincing to all of us, especially when our eyes are focused on the circumstances and the facts that seem to be stacked against us. Did God really say that He would supply all our needs? (truth)Then why did I get my layoff notice? Did God really say that by the stripes of Jesus I am healed? (truth) Then why am I still battling this sickness, or dealing with this injury? Did God really say raise up a child in the way he should go and they will not depart? (truth) Then why is my child so distant from God and living a life of hell here on earth? The real life experiences seem so convincing, and the doubt of what God's promises really are seem so distant from becoming a reality. If we allow the seed of doubt to take root in our mind, fear and destruction will be the fruit that we will eat of.
God's answer to Adam and Eve in their situation comes in one of the most powerful questions: "Who told you that...?" Genesis 3:11 Who told you that... you can't rise above the economic tide? Who told you that... your healing isn't real and for you, but for people that are better and more special? Who told you that... your children are too far for God to reach them?
In my life, I can tell you that the temporary circumstances have always fallen short to God's purpose and plan for my life. Coming from a broken home, and an absence of a father didn't keep me from becoming the father that I was destined to be, or a marriage that is still passionate and full of life after 14 amazing years! Although I didn't go to a 4 year bible college, it didn't stop God from opening doors for His call in my life as a youth pastor, associate and now senior pastor! In spite of the economic strain, God has still allowed our church to build what God has destined for our church in our our community. My wife and I have seen God's faithfulness to us financially and has allowed us to give sacrificially over the past 2 years! Who told us we could do all this? Certainly not society, not all our friends, nor all the church going people. Who told me that there is a plan and purpose for my life. Who told me that these plans are for me to prosper, for good and not for evil? (Jeremiah 29:11)
Let's not continue the Fall of Man. Let's be firmly established in God's Word regardless of what the circumstances may seem to be, or what others may say. Let's see the Rise of Man come as we remember what God told Joshua "Be strong and courageous. Do not be terrified; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go." Joshua 1:9
Tuesday, June 30, 2009
Dig Deep TOGETHER
Pastors Greg and Starlene Martin are valued friends of ours and started a church about 8 years ago. Pastor Greg asked me to speak at their Men's Retreat. We spent one night together then headed out the next afternoon to do some white water rafting. In our raft of 8 men plus the guide, I only knew one person... Pastor Greg.
One thing that made our trip safe and fun was the fact that in a short period of time, we had to become a team of men focusing on one task: to conquer the rapids that were waiting to throw us into the rushing waters. It didn't matter what our jobs were, how much money we made, or what sort of car we drove, we knew that if we didn't become a team, get in sync with each other as we tackled those rapids, we were at risk of falling in. Together we were either going to ride the waves or be swallowed by them.
One of the techniques we used to make sure we were were digging deep in the water at the same time, is that we called out every stroke by yelling "DIG... DIG... DIG!" We took our rest between rapids together, and raise our paddles after each rapid to high five and celebrate another exhilarating victory TOGETHER.
In life, we weren't meant to DIG alone, but to share life, and do it together. Being connected in life, wanting the best, meeting the challenges together to bring encouragement and strength to life's battles. Doing life alone is exhausting and we can't expect to be victorious as a one man team. I didn't know the guys in my boat that well, but we committed to DIG together. We found ourselves telling stories, laughed together, watching out for each other when a big wave knocked some of the guys off balance. And after the 4 hour journey, I knew those guys better and we had more in common than we realized.
Are you paddling alone? Are you looking out for your own interests only? Who's around you that may need a friend or encouragement? Don't just wait for someone to ask you into their boat, ask them to get into yours. Be approachable, be diverse, always seek out new friendships. You'll find yourself being exposed to new adventures and being able to assist others in their life. Don't let negative past experiences keep you from new opportunities and new relationships. You were never meant to experience life alone... reach out and invest in yourself by adding value to others!
Tuesday, June 9, 2009
Rolling Down The River
One thing that took some time getting use to was trusting the raft. I'm not afraid of water, but my goal was to stay in the boat for the entire journey. I anticipated getting wet, which was welcomed since the temperature was in the low 80's. So our guide instructed us to secure ourselves by using our feet as we aproached the rapids.
Find Your Footing – every person in that raft was sitting on the outer perimeter, not in the middle. This allowed you to stretch way over the water and dig deep into the water to get the power you needed to pull through the waves. It was sort of scary at first, but the key to being aggressive on the intense rapids was to wedge your feet in the corner seams of the raft.
In life, finding your footing is to be anchored in the truth, God’s Word. The waves of life want to bring fear, anxiety and ultimately destruction, but we must be firmly established in God’s truth and stretch....reach out and dig through those waves!
Psalm 94:18-19 If I say, "My foot slips," Your mercy, O Lord, will hold me up. In the multitude of my anxieties withing me, Your comforts delight my soul.
* When the waves of financial despair rise up, my footing is firmly established in the truth the God has declared Himself as my provider.
* When the doctors diagnose me with sickness, my feet are wedged in the finished work of Christ that has already healed my disease.
* When temptation seems to be all around me, I call upon Jesus and His Spirit anchors me in the truth of God's Word and will for my life.
* In the midst of uncertainty and fear, His Word becomes a lamp to my feet and a light to my path.
Renewing my mind isn't just memorizing what the Bible says. My mind is renewed as I secure my footing on His promises in the midst of the crashing waves, but boldly stretching myself over the situation knowing that I'm firmly established in Him.
Prayer: Father thank you for Your Spirit that enables me to be firmly established in truth. You did not give me a spirit of fear, but of love, power and a sound mind. I will engage my faith in the midst of the waves that crash against me, knowing that Your mercy has anchored me. Your truth gives me leverage and sets my heart free!
Find Your Footing – every person in that raft was sitting on the outer perimeter, not in the middle. This allowed you to stretch way over the water and dig deep into the water to get the power you needed to pull through the waves. It was sort of scary at first, but the key to being aggressive on the intense rapids was to wedge your feet in the corner seams of the raft.
In life, finding your footing is to be anchored in the truth, God’s Word. The waves of life want to bring fear, anxiety and ultimately destruction, but we must be firmly established in God’s truth and stretch....reach out and dig through those waves!
Psalm 94:18-19 If I say, "My foot slips," Your mercy, O Lord, will hold me up. In the multitude of my anxieties withing me, Your comforts delight my soul.
* When the waves of financial despair rise up, my footing is firmly established in the truth the God has declared Himself as my provider.
* When the doctors diagnose me with sickness, my feet are wedged in the finished work of Christ that has already healed my disease.
* When temptation seems to be all around me, I call upon Jesus and His Spirit anchors me in the truth of God's Word and will for my life.
* In the midst of uncertainty and fear, His Word becomes a lamp to my feet and a light to my path.
Renewing my mind isn't just memorizing what the Bible says. My mind is renewed as I secure my footing on His promises in the midst of the crashing waves, but boldly stretching myself over the situation knowing that I'm firmly established in Him.
Prayer: Father thank you for Your Spirit that enables me to be firmly established in truth. You did not give me a spirit of fear, but of love, power and a sound mind. I will engage my faith in the midst of the waves that crash against me, knowing that Your mercy has anchored me. Your truth gives me leverage and sets my heart free!
Monday, June 8, 2009
White Water Rafting
Last weekend I went white-water rafting, something that I'd never done before. IT WAS AN AMAZING EXPERIENCE! A group of 14 men went down the Wenatchee River in two rafts, along with three other rafts. Water was high, rapids aggressive and adrenaline pumping as we hit some solid class three waves and some class fours. Of the five rafts, two completely flipped over, the one I was in didn't.There were times when you could sit back and casually float down the river, soaking in the beauty of nature. Next thing you know, your fighting the waves that are trying to launch you from your raft; everyone digging to pull the raft over the rapids.
Although there was danger, and a lot of hard work, my experience was exhilarating and very enjoyable. Whether it's on a river or in life, there's some things that you want to get a handle on in order to overcome the rapids. Over the next few days I'll share my thoughts on this adventure!
Listen to Your Guide - Our greatest asset in that boat was our guide, Sergio. He's a local and has been floating that river since he was 9 years old, a total of 18 years. He knows the river like the back of his hand and knew exactly what dangers to avoid, and picked the exact 'line' for us to take to match our abilities with our experience. It was incredible how he was able to position us like a master as we hit those raging waves. His role was to provide safety, give us a great experience and coach us how to paddle (dig). It was our role to listen and do exactly what he said, otherwise our experience could have been less than desired or devastating!
In life, there's no greater guide than Jesus Christ! He knows the road we travel: it's challenges, hurts, pains, difficulties, temptations, pitfalls, disappointments, etc. Life can be devestating, but with Jesus Christ as our Guide those waves become opportunities of great victory; full of joy, excitment and memories of God's goodness to us.
Psalm 66:12 says "We went through fire and flood, but You [God] brought us to a place of great abundance."
Regardless of the waves and rapids we face or are around the bend, know that as we trust in the Spirit of God to be our guide, we can have the courage and peace of mind to overcome every challenge... to live strong!
Prayer: Almighty God - Who gives strength to the weak and upholds those who fall. Fill me with your strength and courage to go through deep waters. To overcome all obstacles, to resist the devil and fulfill my destiny let your grace cover my life, and your hand be upon me.
Thursday, May 21, 2009
Slow Death of Discouragement
1 Peter 5:8-9 NIV "Be self controlled and alert. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour. Resist him, standing firm in the faith..."
The past few Sundays at FFC we have talked about Beyond the Hurt and Live Strong, messages that bring awareness to the real attacks of a real enemy and how to find real victory! We are excited about the great things that God has been doing in the lives of people. The simple truth that no matter what's happening; we have the choice of becoming better or bitter.
This week I have found been alerted to another tactic that Satan likes to use to keep us from fulfilling our destiny and living strong... discouragement. Just by looking at this word we can see the reason why the devil likes to use it, to break us of our courage to move forward toward God's will and desire for our lives.
The thing about discouragement is that it's a slow death. It seems to suffocate the joy of life out of us. At first you think you can tread the waters by yourself, then pretty soon fatigue sets in and the water becomes thick like molasses and you struggle to keep your head over water. Soon you swallow the fear and the soul becomes paralyzed and leads to defeat.
The problem isn't the enemy, it's fact that we didn't take the time to let go of the responsibility and give it to God in the first place. The verse before it, verse 7 says: "Cast all your anxiety on Him because He cares for you."
The best way to cast down discouragement is to be encouraged in Christ, and to cast your cares upon Him. God doesn't expect us to carry our own burdens, but to give them to Him. Are you walking in discouragement? Stop trying to be strong in yourself, be encouraged through Jesus.
The past few Sundays at FFC we have talked about Beyond the Hurt and Live Strong, messages that bring awareness to the real attacks of a real enemy and how to find real victory! We are excited about the great things that God has been doing in the lives of people. The simple truth that no matter what's happening; we have the choice of becoming better or bitter.
This week I have found been alerted to another tactic that Satan likes to use to keep us from fulfilling our destiny and living strong... discouragement. Just by looking at this word we can see the reason why the devil likes to use it, to break us of our courage to move forward toward God's will and desire for our lives.
The thing about discouragement is that it's a slow death. It seems to suffocate the joy of life out of us. At first you think you can tread the waters by yourself, then pretty soon fatigue sets in and the water becomes thick like molasses and you struggle to keep your head over water. Soon you swallow the fear and the soul becomes paralyzed and leads to defeat.
The problem isn't the enemy, it's fact that we didn't take the time to let go of the responsibility and give it to God in the first place. The verse before it, verse 7 says: "Cast all your anxiety on Him because He cares for you."
The best way to cast down discouragement is to be encouraged in Christ, and to cast your cares upon Him. God doesn't expect us to carry our own burdens, but to give them to Him. Are you walking in discouragement? Stop trying to be strong in yourself, be encouraged through Jesus.
Monday, May 4, 2009
YOU Perspective
Psalm 139:14,17 I praise You because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; Your works are wonderful, I know that full well. How precious to me are Your thoughts, O God!
Our Sunday series entitled Perspective has be incredible! There's so many things that influence how we see life and determines our experiences: the media, family and friends, past experiences, expectations of others, culture, etc. All these compete for our attention, but the ones that truly influence our lens of life are those things that we give authority to.
I love this scripture because it gives me the proper clarity of where my focus should be, not just for life in general, but how to see myself through God's eyes. This is deeper than self image or self esteem. It goes to the value and worth of who I am. "I praise You because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; Your works are wonderful..."
This statement comes alive with something very challenging: "...I know that full well." I've got to own it, believe it and live it out! Each day I must keep this in focus, especially when I am in a struggle or am brought face to face with my own shortcomings. Again, this brings into focus His grace being active in my life.
No matter what I may be facing, regardless of the opinions and words of others, or the popular mindsets and influences of our society, I hold on tight and give authority to Him: "How precious to me are Your thoughts, of God!" The greatest evidence of God's power is His ability to change the way I live my life, and that's by changing the lenses in which I see. How I see myself, my family, those around me, my circumstances, finances... everything!
Lord I thank you for creating me and placing such enormous value and worth in my life. Help me not to loose sight of the Your thoughts throughout my days. Restore the eyes of my heart that have been blurred by the hurts and disappointments of the past. Remove the fears that limit You to be fully at work in my life each day. Give me eyes of faith and assurance in the midst of uncertainty to be all that You have destined me to be. Amen!
Monday, April 20, 2009
14 Years of Perspective
At FFC we started a new Message Series entitled Perspective. We're looking at those things in life that shape our views in all areas of life... kind of like sunglasses. One of the truths is that our perspective determines our experiences. Media, family up-bringing, other people, past experiences and many other things want to shape our perspective of life, especially marriage. Even me writing these things have the potential of shaping your perspective of marriage. You and I have the power to choose to whom or what we will authority and influence into our marriage. Angie and I have determined to allow God's Word to have that authority in our lives and in our marriage.
This leads to some more reflections of our 14 years of marriage:
6. Growing Vision For Your Future - What do you want to see in your marriage in the next 5, 10 or 20 years down the road? Those seeds are being planted right now! For many couples, after the kids the out of the house, they find themselves flat footed, disconnected from their spouse because their vision never went past their kids. What you did up till now may be great, but it must continue to grow and change. I'm not the perfect husband, but I'm a changing husband. Learning how to become what God desires me to be as a man and husband.
7. Push Each Other's Limits - This isn't about getting on each other's nerves, but being the greatest fan of your spouse. Help the other reach and fulfill their potential in their life: going back to school, taking that next position at work, running a marathon, getting involved in sports leagues once again... Although you're married, there's still incredible talents and potential that God has planned for our lives. Instead of being idle and stuck in the routine of life, let your spouse know that you believe in them and see the incredible potential that still awaits them.
Ask God to give you a fresh new perspective in your marriage. Don't try to go back and live the 'good old days', but passionately pursue the greater days that are still to be lived!
Thursday, April 16, 2009
14 Years Continued...
Right now Angie and I are at the Airport awaiting our flight home after spending 4 days together for our 14th anniversary. We can't wait to see Jaiden and Mikayla!
So, here's some more things that we have committed ourselves to:
4.Communication - Do more listening than talking: look at your spouse and give your full attention, listen to the body language and voice tone.Find out what's being said beyond the words: restate what you understand is being said, ask clarifying questions. This takes time...not just during the commercials! Communication is NOT what is said, communication is coming to understanding.
5. Deal with Conflict Quickly - Ephesians 4:26-27 "In your anger do not sin: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold." Every marriage has conflicts, and we can get angry with each other;but we must learn to handle this correctly. Don't go into a conflict trying to prove yourself right and the other wrong. Remember, we are to submit to each other, in this together, and need to communicate to get through these times of conflict. Ask for forgiveness, give it, make needed adjustments and move on. Don't give the devil a foothold!
Stay tuned to more! Growing Healthy Families with Christ; every heart, every person, every generation!
So, here's some more things that we have committed ourselves to:
4.Communication - Do more listening than talking: look at your spouse and give your full attention, listen to the body language and voice tone.Find out what's being said beyond the words: restate what you understand is being said, ask clarifying questions. This takes time...not just during the commercials! Communication is NOT what is said, communication is coming to understanding.
5. Deal with Conflict Quickly - Ephesians 4:26-27 "In your anger do not sin: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold." Every marriage has conflicts, and we can get angry with each other;but we must learn to handle this correctly. Don't go into a conflict trying to prove yourself right and the other wrong. Remember, we are to submit to each other, in this together, and need to communicate to get through these times of conflict. Ask for forgiveness, give it, make needed adjustments and move on. Don't give the devil a foothold!
Stay tuned to more! Growing Healthy Families with Christ; every heart, every person, every generation!
Wednesday, April 15, 2009
Thank You God!
A few weeks back (April 1st), our church construction project experienced quite a scare. Dennis Hight, our on site project manager for FFC, fell over 22 feet off the roof.His injuries included: shattered heel, broken tibia and fibia that protruded out of his skin and dug into the dirt, pelvis separated into places, broken lumbar and bruised internal organs.God's hand was there protecting Dennis - sparing his life. The doctors have performed 3 surgeries on his leg, and one for his pelvis. As of today, Dennis is doing exceptionally well, and may be coming home this week!
During all this, our church and people all over the world (reports from Oregon, California and Hawaii), have been praying for Dennis' healing and quick recovery. The Body of Christ, the Church, is a powerful and amazing force.
The day after this accident happened, I shared with Dennis' wife Pam a verse that the pastoral staff had just gone over - Proverbs 18:14 "A man's spirit sustains him in sickness, but a crushed spirit who can bear?"
The battle for our healing was taken care of by Jesus Christ on the cross, our battle for our healing is in our heart - our spirit of faith! I thank God for the timeliness of His Word, and the stirring of the Holy Spirit to ignite the fire of faith in our hearts.
THANK YOU GOD FOR THE HEALING IN DENNIS' BODY! Continue to lift his heart as he anticipates finishing this great work that he has led this church in. Amen!
Monday, April 13, 2009
Celebrating 14 Years!
Look at this picture, thank God for change! It was taken April 15th, 1995... 14 years ago my wife Angie and I got married. With each year that passes, it has gotten better and better... I'm incredibly blessed!Proverbs 18:22 - He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the Lord.
Like any marriage, there are challenges that we go through, but we are committed to growing healthy and better TOGETHER. Everyday it takes work, encouragement and lots of grace. Some people have asked us what has been key for us in our marriage, so over the next few days Angie and I will share what have found valuable for us in marriage.
1. True Faith - Each spouse must be fully committed and growing in their relationship with Jesus. He's the one who changes hearts, no spouse or person has that ability. God is love, and is the endless supply of love and grace... be connected to the source.
2. Selflessly Serve - The Bible tells us to submit one to another (Ephesians 5:21-32) and to serve one another. This is considering the other before self. Wanting to meet the other's needs, finding fulfillment in making each other happy, praying for your spouse's victory in life and when difficult decisions/times are happening. Serving seeks ways to meet the needs of others.
3. Continue to Date - Marriage takes lots of hard work, and sometimes the joy and fun of being together gets lost. Don't "find time" to have fun... make time for it! Especially when you have kids, you need to invest that time with each other. Go on a date once a week, and go on some sort of week/weekend get-away from the kids, this is investing in your marriage and it's one of the best things you can model and give to your children!
Marriage is like eating an elephant, you do one bite at a time. Maybe there's something here you can apply to your marriage. There is never one thing to a healthy marriage, but a commitment to many little things.
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